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    (Tormented) relationship music

    Kind of inspired by VC's 'Staggeringly awkward relationship help needed' thread, over on World, I have to ask what bands and whatsongs sum up - for you - the chaos in your heart that a new relationship elicits?

    For me, the little-known (outside of the UK and Italy) group Breathless rule this particular range. They just seem to have grasp on the torment that nebulous love can bring like no other band.

    (Some of you may know vocalist Dominic Appleton from his work on the latter two of This Mortal Coil's three albums. I've heard rumours that he's gay, but I neither know (or care) if this is true. Perhaps it may contribute to the sense of relationship frustration in Breathless' work.)

    Anyway, here's an example - the track 'Heartburst' which, possibly more than any other of theirs embodies - sonically and lyrically - that frustration and confusion of being in the early throes of a relationship. I think of the situation it encapsulates as almost being caught in the middle of a blizzard - your senses are overwhelmed and you can barely tell where you are, but you just keep on going, regardless, whether it leads to some kind of deliverance or to death.

    Anyway, here it is...

    Breathless - 'Heartburst'

    "I didn't sleep at all last night
    I didn't sleep but I'm not tired
    I've got a good cure for my panic attacks
    I've got a good cure for a quiet life.
    I'm looking for the same things in other people's eyes
    But I don't find what I want
    Well it's a wrong, wrong, wrong way of doing things
    But sometimes it's the best way.

    I know what they've told you
    I know what they've said
    I know that they've warned you
    But if you listen to them it doesn't matter much
    Because I'm already over the worst
    And if there's anything I haven't said
    Put money on it, oh yes
    And I'll get round to it one day.
    Seeing a far flung hope slip by
    It keeps me awake at night;
    I can't help thinking
    Of where you are now
    And I'm sure that you're sure
    It felt like an ill wind
    Well that's not so strange.

    All's for the best
    Oh don't make me laugh.
    They're just words, words, words
    That's all they are.
    Only saying what they should."

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    Maybe not along the same lines, but as a kid I remember tormenting my elder sister in the throws of first-love break up by singing Suddenly by Billy Ocean to her.

    For years I genuinely thought the lyrics were "Suddenly - life has NO meaning to me" rather than "new meaning".

    Little things I guess.

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      #3
      (Tormented) relationship music

      "New relationship songs" -

      Will You by Hazel O'Connor

      Teenage Kicks?

      Stretch Out and Wait or Girl Afraid by The Smiths

      Break-up songs: "Love Will Tear Us Apart" surely rules the roost here, although you could also cite The Beatles' "I'm Looking Through You" or The Smiths' "Jeane".

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        #4
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        I found myself listening to When Love Breaks Down by Prefab Sprout a lot earlier this year.

        Bizarrely, as I type, I'm Not In Love by 10cc has come up on the Spotify playlist.

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          #5
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          Pet Sounds had songs on this theme, such as "You Still Believe In Me". Brian Wilson was the epitome of the talented, sensitive artist who couldn't function as a husband/partner/father.

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            #6
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            Start:Love Rears Its Ugly Head- Living Colour

            End: I Still Miss You- Arab Strap

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              #7
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              "Will Still You Love Me Tomorrow?"

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                #8
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                Geoffrey de Ste. Croix wrote:
                End: I Still Miss You- Arab Strap
                I'm searching for the words that do this song, and their other tunes I've listened to over the past hour or so, justice. But all I've got is "Wow".

                The imagery was so vivid I feel the need to go and shower.

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                  #9
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                  1000 Hurts by Shellac. The trite thing to do would be to post a link to 'Prayer to God', instead I am going to post a link to 'Canaveral':

                  What do you think could make him
                  Stick his hands in my life
                  What on Earth could make him stoop so low?

                  What do you to think could make him
                  Stick his cock in my wife
                  What on Earth could make him stoop so low?

                  I'd like to put him up there in one
                  I'd like to see his face
                  I'd like to put him up there in one
                  Blow him up into space
                  He'll fertilize the rice in China
                  With the cinders of his remains

                  Want to start a country somewhere
                  On an island or an archipelago
                  or a peninsula, or an isthmus, or a fjord or
                  an inlet, or even a mountain
                  Print up stamps and money there
                  and they'll all have Oswalds face

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                    #10
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                    HORN wrote:
                    Originally posted by Geoffrey de Ste. Croix
                    End: I Still Miss You- Arab Strap
                    I'm searching for the words that do this song, and their other tunes I've listened to over the past hour or so, justice. But all I've got is "Wow".

                    The imagery was so vivid I feel the need to go and shower.
                    Yeah. Visceral, brutally honest, soul searching doesn't begin to do them justice. I Would've Liked Me A Lot Last Night is the greatest hangover song ever written. With lyrics to match their general output.

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