So there’s no way of avoiding reading about Michael Jackson these days, unless you don’t read the papers at all. The latest in this already annoying which will carry on until he gets stuffed and lifted up on a Las Vegas hotel roof top to overlook America, is that his two oldest kids aren’t his at all.
He never shagged that woman, she was injected (or whatever you call that kind of non-copulation in English) with sperm from a man not MJ.
This got me thinking.
Having children is not a right, it’s a gift. I think all of you will agree with me on this one.
Now, there are, of course, couples who can not get children, couples who need to resort to having someone else’s semen pumped into the woman, or who adopt, or whatever else I can’t come think of now.
Isn’t that kind of egotistical, to put it very crass, blunt and just straightforward?
I’m not judging people who, say, adopt a child. It probably sounds very rude and idiotic upon first reading, what I bring up here, but isn’t it quite an egotistical act, or a sign of it, when you start to go beyond what nature grants you?
You want a child.
For instance, if you really, truly loved that child who you wish to adopt, what you’d do when you’d find one who couldn’t be taken care of his/her mother/father, you’d invest all that time/money to make sure that child could remain with his/her mother/father.
That would be the bigger kind of love, but it’s not about that, is it?
It’s about having a child of ones own.
I’m not out to provoke here.
I’ve had the thought myself, that with the right partner I’d adopt a child.
I’m strictly talking about it from a sense of how it’s often done, this bringing a child into ones life, done out of a quite selfish kind of view where it reminds me more of someone bringing a pet into the household, rather than a human family member.
That’s the image I get when I read about M Jackson and his kids, anyway. He lost Bubbles, and brought in a set further up the evolutionary ladder, still pets.
He never shagged that woman, she was injected (or whatever you call that kind of non-copulation in English) with sperm from a man not MJ.
This got me thinking.
Having children is not a right, it’s a gift. I think all of you will agree with me on this one.
Now, there are, of course, couples who can not get children, couples who need to resort to having someone else’s semen pumped into the woman, or who adopt, or whatever else I can’t come think of now.
Isn’t that kind of egotistical, to put it very crass, blunt and just straightforward?
I’m not judging people who, say, adopt a child. It probably sounds very rude and idiotic upon first reading, what I bring up here, but isn’t it quite an egotistical act, or a sign of it, when you start to go beyond what nature grants you?
You want a child.
For instance, if you really, truly loved that child who you wish to adopt, what you’d do when you’d find one who couldn’t be taken care of his/her mother/father, you’d invest all that time/money to make sure that child could remain with his/her mother/father.
That would be the bigger kind of love, but it’s not about that, is it?
It’s about having a child of ones own.
I’m not out to provoke here.
I’ve had the thought myself, that with the right partner I’d adopt a child.
I’m strictly talking about it from a sense of how it’s often done, this bringing a child into ones life, done out of a quite selfish kind of view where it reminds me more of someone bringing a pet into the household, rather than a human family member.
That’s the image I get when I read about M Jackson and his kids, anyway. He lost Bubbles, and brought in a set further up the evolutionary ladder, still pets.
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