Ahead of Valentine's Day and all that...
I'm not afraid to admit that I'm almost certainly a 'lifetime bachelor' from now on. My last relationship just did me in so much that I really don't think I ever want to be involved with anyone ever again. I also think I proved to myself that I'm really not cut out for relationships.
But it's not necessarily a bad thing. I actually weigh it up sometimes and most of the time I'm really glad I'm not in a relationship.- I get to do what I want, when I want and I don't feel obliged to do anything other than that. It's great! If I want to spend 6 hours straight, playing FIFA Manager on the PC, then that's what I'll do. If I want to get tipsy and watch football or a film - I can do that, too. The list is endless. It mostly involves 'blokey' stuff, of course. But I can still appreciate shoes and clothes - only from a distance - so that's good, too.
Oh - and in case you're wondering, I really don't miss the sex! I'm lucky, like that, I guess. I actually don't like the idea of having to get used to another person's body or any of their weird hang-ups or habits, right now.
The silence is glorious, too, sometimes.
Quite frankly, I miss the company of dogs more than that of any kind of partner!
So... bachelorhood. Does anyone else here consider themselves a 'bachelor'? Is anyone particularly bothered by their relationship status? I suppose we could have a 'bachelors vs. lovers' debate, but it's really not meant to be a "my lifestyle choice is best" kind of thing. Just wondering what peoples' outlook on it all might be.
I'm not afraid to admit that I'm almost certainly a 'lifetime bachelor' from now on. My last relationship just did me in so much that I really don't think I ever want to be involved with anyone ever again. I also think I proved to myself that I'm really not cut out for relationships.
But it's not necessarily a bad thing. I actually weigh it up sometimes and most of the time I'm really glad I'm not in a relationship.- I get to do what I want, when I want and I don't feel obliged to do anything other than that. It's great! If I want to spend 6 hours straight, playing FIFA Manager on the PC, then that's what I'll do. If I want to get tipsy and watch football or a film - I can do that, too. The list is endless. It mostly involves 'blokey' stuff, of course. But I can still appreciate shoes and clothes - only from a distance - so that's good, too.
Oh - and in case you're wondering, I really don't miss the sex! I'm lucky, like that, I guess. I actually don't like the idea of having to get used to another person's body or any of their weird hang-ups or habits, right now.
The silence is glorious, too, sometimes.
Quite frankly, I miss the company of dogs more than that of any kind of partner!
So... bachelorhood. Does anyone else here consider themselves a 'bachelor'? Is anyone particularly bothered by their relationship status? I suppose we could have a 'bachelors vs. lovers' debate, but it's really not meant to be a "my lifestyle choice is best" kind of thing. Just wondering what peoples' outlook on it all might be.
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