I posted on here, FB and Twitter the other day about World Vasectomy Day, to general indifference, a few muted "yay!"s and a very upset response from one male friend.
I honestly don't understand why men aren't going for them, so I thought about where I could find a sample of men to ask about it, and came up with "yous lot".
Why oh why are men not having vasectomies, when they're not positively seeking to get women pregnant? Especially if they hate using condoms. They're generally reversible and men can bank their sperm if they're worried about it. It's much more reliable and less invasive than most of the contraception women have to use.
I read a bit today about the effects that The Pill has on a woman's brain and it made me rather cross. I'm too tired to go on about it now. The Pill raised my blood pressure, when I was slim and active in my early 20s, and the doctor kept telling me not to worry about it. That brand was subsequently banned after a few healthy women dropped dead.
I had a coil inserted for non-contraceptive reasons - it's been OK but I'm glad I had it put in under anaesthetic. Most women don't, and it apparently hurts as though someone was trying to jam a piece of plastic through your cervix, but like most gynae procedures that are agonising, it's described by doctors as "a bit uncomfortable". A vasectomy apparently makes you a bit sore and unable to cycle for a week or two. Yeh, welcome to our world. Almost.
I have some friends who've been in very long relationships where the woman has been on the Pill the whole time. I'm mystified. Why?
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I honestly don't understand why men aren't going for them, so I thought about where I could find a sample of men to ask about it, and came up with "yous lot".
Why oh why are men not having vasectomies, when they're not positively seeking to get women pregnant? Especially if they hate using condoms. They're generally reversible and men can bank their sperm if they're worried about it. It's much more reliable and less invasive than most of the contraception women have to use.
I read a bit today about the effects that The Pill has on a woman's brain and it made me rather cross. I'm too tired to go on about it now. The Pill raised my blood pressure, when I was slim and active in my early 20s, and the doctor kept telling me not to worry about it. That brand was subsequently banned after a few healthy women dropped dead.
I had a coil inserted for non-contraceptive reasons - it's been OK but I'm glad I had it put in under anaesthetic. Most women don't, and it apparently hurts as though someone was trying to jam a piece of plastic through your cervix, but like most gynae procedures that are agonising, it's described by doctors as "a bit uncomfortable". A vasectomy apparently makes you a bit sore and unable to cycle for a week or two. Yeh, welcome to our world. Almost.
I have some friends who've been in very long relationships where the woman has been on the Pill the whole time. I'm mystified. Why?
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