Years ago (and I mean when I was a young teen) I watched a film on TV with my family that was about a guy who I think did American civil war re-enactments. It was a fairly standard sort of drama, but there was one scene that really stuck out to me. The main character had his own method of preparing a lettuce, which was to bash the bottom of the lettuce hard on a counter to break all the leaves off at once.
In the course of the plot he becomes friendly with another woman and his wife suspects they are having an affair, which he denies. He claims not to have been close to her and stuff. Then the wife and some other friends of his are at this woman's house and she is preparing food for them all and she uses the patented lettuce preparation "Bash" technique, at which point everyone in the scene gasps. I didn't understand what the big deal was until my Dad explained that it meant the guy has been spending time with her after all because he had taught her that technique. It was the first time I really understood that a person's actions could give them away like that. A proper revelatory moment, that has always stuck with me.
Can anyone here recognise that film? It would have been made no later than the early 80s. I'm sure it had a subplot of American civil way re-enactments in it. It was set in small town America. And one of the lead characters was betrayed by salad.
It's not much to go on, but someone here might have seen it.
In the course of the plot he becomes friendly with another woman and his wife suspects they are having an affair, which he denies. He claims not to have been close to her and stuff. Then the wife and some other friends of his are at this woman's house and she is preparing food for them all and she uses the patented lettuce preparation "Bash" technique, at which point everyone in the scene gasps. I didn't understand what the big deal was until my Dad explained that it meant the guy has been spending time with her after all because he had taught her that technique. It was the first time I really understood that a person's actions could give them away like that. A proper revelatory moment, that has always stuck with me.
Can anyone here recognise that film? It would have been made no later than the early 80s. I'm sure it had a subplot of American civil way re-enactments in it. It was set in small town America. And one of the lead characters was betrayed by salad.
It's not much to go on, but someone here might have seen it.
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